Being a widow makes you in and of itself a rebounder for life. even if you are lucky enough to meet that special someone who can fill that lost companion role, im guessing there is still always a sense of what was lost can never be found again. Ha at least thats what I can see it being for me.
While tweaking my online dating profile this mornin I contemplated the question.”What are you looking for?” Nothing from the drop downs seemed to fit. Then a flash of genius..”Im looking for someone whos looking for someone who can be a rebound relationship”
It fits so perfectly, for my needs.
Lets analyze shall we… Good.
Someone who’s been married/committed and loved and lost is most likely looking for someone with whom to spend time but not too much time, someone who can fulfill that void of lonesome and play a partner role to a certain degree. Someone who wants to have the kind of intimacy you can only know when you’ve really loved someone but maybe not full on. Someone whos interested in similar things, so you can do fun stuff together but doesnt need to be totally involved in your day to day life.
Ha..now that Im reading this its kind of like Im saying I’m looking for a half ass relationship, but thats probably mostly true.
Hows that for an online dating profile. There is potential in this idea though, lemme see if rebound.org is available for grabs, another invention idea that most likely wont see the light of day.
I like this. i like that you know what you want. i love you.
also, can i get a date.
I know that you will find someone who knows that you and my granddaughters are extremely special!!!! You might not find that person right away but anything that is good is worth waiting for sweetheart!!! I love you very much!! bedazzled77